Ever since I can remember I've always loved looking at relationships to see who's an SJ versus an NF...in mine and Dave's relationship I'm the SJ and he's the NF. I love having these conversations with people because its so interesting to me to see how they view themselves...in the relationship world if you're an SJ you shouldn't marry an SJ..so hopefully you married someone different then what you are :) Basically you don't want 2 NF's in the relationship....cause you'll never accomplish ANYTHING!!! enjoy the definitions...which one are you?!
SJ Temperament - The "Protectors" |
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| SJs are observant, stable and motivated by a need to maintain security. They are realistic, routinized administrators requiring tasks be completed correctly and that people behave appropriately. SJs make thorough examinations to ensure everything is done according to plan. They make sure no more and no less credit is given than due. When a need arises, they are quick to provide a solution, provided that the need is justified. SJs are not driven by impulse, but rather by concrete fact. By virtue of their reliable, diligent, industrious, persevering nature, they make excellent leaders. |
NF Temperament - The "Visionaries" |
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| NFs are introspective, intuitive and highly idealistic. They are subjective, compassionate "feeler" people that desire to contribute goodness and meaning to the lives of others. They are effective at doing this through their nurturing, insightful and encouraging nature. NFs despise conflict. They will do everything they can to make sure their loved ones get along with each other and are happy. NFs are imaginitive, creatively inclined and passionate about their choice causes. | |
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We're screwed. We are both SJ's. :)
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